You're talking about the colors, right? Just use a shader. There aren't a whole lot but some of them are good.
That's a bit of a wait, though, since you have to be level 20 to use any shader (which quite honestly is stupid). If you haven't been able to dedicate several hours (or days) into grinding, or you're just starting a new class, "just use a shader" doesn't help much. And finding a shader that has a color combination you like is even harder. I was lucky that the freebie "Double Banshee" shader happened to be a close match for me, but the "default" Raven Sheath III had the same general colors but in a more dynamic scheme, but it came down to a choice between keeping the color I liked, or gaining another 80 defense and better abilities.