well I am a 17 year old junior in high school, my friends know I am a nerd, marching band, concert band, jazz band, drum-line, but I have more girl-friends than guys, and I am NOT "happy", don't wanna offend anyone, sry. And they aren't all band geeks or guard girls, in fact most of them are sports fanatics and cheerleaders, they like me because I a psychological punching bag and will let them vent on me and I will listen. I am just a nice guy and they appreciate that, I am actually really close to having my first gf from a girl on the northern area of the city, who I have been amazing friends with and practically dating since kindergarten. So it's possible, just be really nice to them and mean it.